Showing posts with label Parenthood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenthood. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

undies for our big boy


A month into moving in to our new apartment, we decided to start potty training Lincoln. Even better, he decided he wanted to use the toilet on his own. A few days prior, we all went to the store together and I decided to buy the kids their own fun underwear. I was a little hesitant to start especially since Chris works literally all day every day! But one Sunday after church Lincoln told me that he wanted to wear underwear... Ok then, we were on. And I knew the second I put on his undies there was no going back. No night time or nap time diapers, no pull-ups or trainers, just underwear from here on out. 

I am amazed at how easy it was to potty train him! Which makes me happy to know that he really was ready to be a "big boy" no more diapers for my little Lincoln. 

It was a bit frustrating at first, but I had already prepared myself for the worst. I didn't push him at all. I didn't time him every time he took a sip of something. I didn't sit him on the toilet forever waiting for something to happen. I just let him be. I wanted him to feel for himself and understand his what his body was telling him. 

Let me just say, I did a lot of laundry! He played all day in his undies and he'd pee his pants often. I cleaned up after him and reminded him to run to the toilet when he had that feeling to go and there was lots of praising for when he did go in the toilet. Fortunately, I knew exactly when he pooped so we didn't have any of those messes to clean. He wet his bed only a couple of times. I really don't know how many accidents he had and I didn't care to keep track of it...that would just discourage me and add more work for me. 

One day it just clicked for him! I remember it took exactly 7 days and he was completely potty trained! It didn't feel stressful for either of us and he has not had any accidents since then! He's great in public, he wakes up dry, and he goes all by himself! (He does usually inform us that he needs to go, and we just give him the ok and he runs off to the bathroom). 

All in all, I am so proud of my Linc-a-dink and the big boy he's become!

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

we have a name!

 
baby #3 can now be referred to as Ivy! If you saw our previous name list here, then you know were all over the place with what we liked and agreed on. Chris did not like the name Ivy at all... but I won him over! (no shocker haha)
It's so cute hearing him refer to the baby now as Ivy. He has really fallen in love with our little Ivy!
 

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

My Little Terrors {3rd edition}

I wonder what's going through their head when they do these crazy things...
 
"these toys are way better!"
"perfect hiding spot for my marine"
"church is the perfect place for a wrestling match!"
"what are these plastic bags doing here!?"
"look mom! we decorated that boring wall!"
Lincoln - "success! I carried it out of the dish washer all by myself!"
Ella - "ooh. this looks fun."
"we play like rock stars!"
"let's mix the rice and oatmeal together to make it easier for mom next time she cooks it."
"what is this thing for anyway?!"
Ella - "how did he do that?!"
"I just need a spot to rest for a minute before i destroy something else."
"I'm just sharing with my cars"
   
these are just some of the things that keep me busy during the day, every day...
  

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Sleep Challenge

Oh beautiful sleep, I miss you dearly.
 
I have been sleep deprived since...oh, my first child was born, 2 1/2 years ago. And lets not forget my kids are ELEVEN MONTHS apart meaning I really haven't gotten a break. I even had some post partum depression for 6 months after Ella was born due to lack of sleep.
 
Sleep is vital and one of the most basic necessities. More sleep means lower stress (big one for me), improved memory, live longer, healthy weight (a huge plus!), and it's the omega 3, vitamin D, and antioxidants all wrapped up into one cozy package. We all know how cranky the kids get if they miss a nap. I don't mess with their sleep schedules or else I'll be dealing with two never ending tantrums. When we lack sleep, our immune system shuts down, we become forgetful, we're low on energy, and I know I'm on the edge of throwing a tantrum myself! 
 
I'm guilty of staying up late, doing absolutely nothing. I put the kids to bed no later then 7:30 and I usually don't go to bed until 11 pm and right when I lay down, without fail, Ella wakes up. If I don't get her right away, then Lincoln wakes up. On average I have to get out of bed 2-3 times a night. (These past 3 weeks have been worse because of the kids being sick and teething). I've accepted the fact that I'm probably never going to sleep through the night because I'm a mom and this truly is a 24 hour job. To be honest I love it. I love knowing that I am the one that brings comfort to my children when they aren't feeling well, even if it is in the middle of the night. There's just a few things I could do differently, or sacrifice some of my very coveted free time at night so that I can get the rest I need.
 
So lets do this.
 
I've come up with a few personal goals to help me catch up on those Zs.
  1. eat well balanced meals throughout the day. (This has been proven to help with sleep).
  2. turn off all screens (TV, phone, computer) at least 1 hour before bed. For me this will be 9 pm.
  3. no sweets or other stimulates after 5 pm. (also proven to help)
  4. small snack before bed (Mama Natural suggested warm milk with honey and a dash of salt, but we'll see about that one).
  5. have a strict cut off time to start my night time routine. I'll make it 9 pm. (I think this is important and will help a lot).
  6. I bought a Book of Mormon study guide I'm excited about so I think I'll add that to my night time routine.
  7. my goal is to have the lights off and in bed by 9:30 (it takes me awhile to actually fall asleep).
     
So, I know 10 pm isn't that early to be going to sleep but I want to make small changes so that I don't get discouraged. Hopefully some the things I listed above will at least help me to relax and sleep quicker.
 
This post might sound silly; Sleep, REALLY!?! But yes, I do believe sleep will help me be a better mom and a happier person over all (and help with those dark circles under my eyes).
 
Ahhh! It's 8:45 right now so I only have a few minutes left before I start counting those sheep!
 Good night!
 


Sunday, October 21, 2012

Life Lately

this week we... 


PEAKS:
  • I'm constantly surrounded by the most amazing people, so kind and completely selfless. Monday and Tuesday Fallon watched my little ones so that I could focus on that endless pile of clean clothes I've been avoiding. Kim invited me over Wednesday so that I could get out of the house and helped tire out my kiddos. and Crystal came over this morning and helped me with the rest of the laundry! What amazing friends I have!
  • I got rid of a lot of my accessories at our dinner social Friday night. It was kind of hard letting go of some things, but once I did it turned out being pretty liberating.
  • I made brownies! ...I've been on a junk food frenzy lately.
PITS:
  • Lincoln and Ella both have an ear infection and I know I do too I just don't want to make a trip to the doctors for myself with these two.
  • The kids have been really sick and vomiting all weekend. Friday night, while at a dinner social, Ella threw up all over my friends floor. Then as we were driving  home Lincoln threw up in the car. They slept for a couple hours, then once I finally went to bed the madness continued. Poor Ella woke up with a bad fever and threw up all over me and my bed and pillows. We got in the bath and she cooled down a bit. She was completely restless so we went down stairs at 1:30 am and played around a bit. I finally got her to sleep around 2:45 and right as I'm sneaking into bed, my poor Lincoln woke up with a high fever as well. He was also restless so we went down stairs for a little. His fever diminished because he is so good about taking his yummy tasting Tylenol, and he went back to sleep. Ella still had a fever and was up the rest of the night. Needless to say, I was up all night alternating between them and it doesn't make it easier considering I've been sick these past few weeks as well.
  • This has been another very long week for me... I just want my husband home!
  • I made brownies... I've been on a junk food frenzy lately...
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Monday, October 1, 2012

Dear Monday...

...please go easy on me.

it's a new week! the kids and i are up early (not my choice), and we have a busy week ahead of us. i'm trying to stay positive and occupied as much as possible. last night i went to bed with anxiety about this upcoming week, and i usually never get anxiety about anything. i know i need to stay close to the Lord...i'm going to need all the help i can get. i have an amazing group of friends still here in VA and i know i can always go to them if i need anything. thank you kim, crystal, fallon, shannon, and even those far from me for being so supportive and making me feel like family.
 
in other news -- it's payday!!! that means i can finally buy the shirt i've been obsessing over! (buying stuff always makes me feel better) ha ha!
 
happy monday everyone!
 

Thursday, August 2, 2012

home sweet home {Riverside, CA - Riv. Plaza}

{home #2.5}

Riverside, California
(Riverside Plaza area)
((Staying with grandma and aunt Andi))

June - October 2011

After finding out i would be caring for 2 babies then moving across the country for Chris' military trining, we decided to move in with my mom for a few months. She helped us so much with the babies and we were able to save up so much while we were there.

this is the house I mostly grew up in so it was nice to be back in the heart of Riverside near all of my friends. This is were my little Lincoln learned to walk. It was in our daily routine to walk around the block and observe everything nature had to offer. He would stop and stair at all the ants and other insects. He'd stare so intently at the neighborhood dogs and bark back at them. We'd talk to the tree with the face (I'll post a pic of that). We had a lot of fun there and I just love the memories I have of my curiously growing Lincoln.

We had our pretty little Ella in August and I don't think I would have been able to survive without my mom there to help me. She would stay up ALL night with me and my crying newborn. Just having her by my side, supporting me through the night, was the best help. Then she would wake up bright and early to take care of my early riser, Lincoln, and let me sleep in. She helped me during my challenging time breast feeding and transitioning from being a mommy of one to two babies.

 Soon after, we would be moving to Virginia where I knew it would be just me and my babies while Chris was working hard training to be an officer in the Marine Corps.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

"We love you..."

"Daddy;
a son's first hero
a daughter's first love."
 
Holding his first born, Lincoln, for the first time.
{Sept. 2010}


With his precious little girl, Ella.
{Aug. 2011}


They've got the greatest dad ever!
{2012}
Happy Father's Day!




Thursday, June 7, 2012

My Little Terrors {2nd edition}

I just finished cleaning up the whole living room and as I'm cleaning the kitchen there was silence... this was going on!

"that's enough crying na-na."

I took out the trash and when I came back to put in a new bag this is what I found in there.

I was fixing breakfast and stepped out to get my crying Ella... Lincoln managed to find away to reach the counter tops.

"I just wanted one sprinkle."

"where did my play mat go?"

throwing out all of the toys isn't enough...

and he recruited some help


I don't even know how he  got into this mess.

she started screaming for me because she got stuck

at least he'll be warm for his nap

I found a surprise in water

and she found a way to climb up the table.

she's pinning Lincoln down and trying to steal his cup.

he knows how to use mascara...
 

Friday, May 18, 2012

Mother's Day


I am so greatful to my husband for making me a mother and I am so blessed to be a mother to these amazing children.


Happy Mother's Day!




Thursday, March 1, 2012

My Little Terror

I could go on and on about the things my little busy Lincoln gets into. He finds a way to make something that isn't dangerous, very dangerous. To say he keeps me on my toes is definitely an understatement!
 
  • I'm always pulling things out of the trash that don't belong... and he's always pulling trash out!
  • when I try to shower, I let him wander in and out of the bathroom and my bedroom (they're connected). One time he got to the box of Q-tips and they were dumped ALL over the floor.
  • Lets not forget the endless amount of times I re-roll to toilet paper after he has unrolled it.
  • I can always count on having to pull something very unexpected out of the toilet!
  • he goes up stairs just to find things to throw down the stairs. and if he sees me coming he runs and hides in the closet or some other random spot .
  • he finds the tightest little space and some how manages to squeeze in and he usually gets stuck...that's the only way I find him is by hearing his scream for help.
  • Then there are the outlets that he constantly messes with. Outlet covers don't even stop him! He knows how to take them off and he even put the whole thing in his mouth before and it got stuck!
  • he climbs onto absolutely EVERYTHING! One time as I was doing the dishes, I peeked over into the living/dining room and he was standing on top of the table dancing!
  • he's always trying to put things into Ella's mouth. One time I caught him digging his finger into her eye! Poor little girl, she was just looking at him like "what are you doing..." I ran to pick her up and that's when the pain kicked in and she started crying.
  • I have to stop him from sitting on her...once, it was like she was his couch, and she didn't even seem to mind at all!
 ...just to list a few
The only baby proofing that would keep him out of trouble would be to lock him in a cage... and since that's out of the question, I guess I'm just going to have to realize that I'll have my hands full with him for a while! He owes me a lot more hugs and kisses... it's the only thing that makes it all worth it. 
 
 
 
 

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Attention All S.A.H.M.s!

       Let's face it, being a Stay At Home Mom is not all glitz and glam. With all the drool, poop, and snot we deal with it's actually quite the opposite. So to keep me from pulling out my hair, I've been trying to find some activities to keep me and the kids busy and make our long days together a little more enjoyable.
        Getting out of the house definitely makes the day go by faster and the kids can let out some energy. For all those days that we do stay home, because of the weather or simply because it's a PJ's kind of day for me, I've been trying to find some fun at-home-activities for us. Click here, here and here to view some of my favorite go-to links with lots of ideas for a fun time with your little ones!
         Share your secrets with the rest of us SAHMs... What do you do to entertain your kids? What simple things do they enjoy? Do you have any favorite books or links on parenting you'd like to share?

I just wanted to share a couple more things that have made me feel a little more valuable as a full time mom, I hope some of you may also find these helpful.


and

This article, Guardians of the Hearth, was a huge reinforcement of the great importance I am as a mother.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

My Poor Little Ella

     Poor little Ella has had a pretty hard week. On Wednesday November 30th, I notice Ella was really hot. I knew she must be running a really high fever but I didn't have a thermometer. I decided to take Chris to work that day so that I could have the car in case I needed to take her to the doctors. So at 6 am we loaded the kids into the car and took Chris to work. Thankfully there is a 24 hour CVS pharmacy right by our house so I stopped by to pick up a thermometer and infant Tylenol. I checked her temperature and it was 102.4, I knew that wasn't good. I called the doctor as soon as they opened and they scheduled to see her at 2 pm. So here I am with 2 little ones at our first visit to the doctors out here in Virginia. Ella is so tired and crying, Lincoln is screaming, then crying, then throwing himself on the ground, and I just can't wait for the doctor to come in and send us back on our way. Doc comes in and checks out Ella and since the only symptoms she is showing is a fever, the doctor wants to do a blood test (which I don't mind. I'd rather be overly cautious than sorry). The nurse comes in and pricks Ella's finger. She had trouble getting much blood so she tries again. By this point Ella is crying so hard and on top of that she is so tired and hungry. They test the blood but think there was an error so they come back for more blood. This time it was a heel prick. Results are the same and it turns out her white blood cells are more than double what it should be. Something about normal is around 15 and hers are around 38. Meaning there is some type of infection her little body is trying to fight off and now we just need to find the source of the problem. The doctor was very concerned and told me to drive straight to the ER and that she already called them to be expecting us. I feel so overwhelmed with two screaming kids, I have no way of contacting Chris, I have no idea where I'm going, and I hope my baby is okay!

      I made a few wrong turns but I finally made it to the hospital and they see Ella immediately. There are four nurses and a doctor surrounding her and a stream of questions being asked to me. They check her temperature (still 102). They insert a catheter to collect a urine sample to check for a UTI. They do a nasal swab to check for the flu. Then chest x-rays are done to rule out any infections there might be in there. Then they scare me with wanting to do a spinal tap to check for any other infections. Before they do that they want to take more blood to test that out also. My little 12 pound baby has already had it hard when they start searching for blood. The nurses prick the top of both her little feet and ankles, both her arms in four places and still can't get a vein. They were able to get an IV into the top of her hand but no still no blood (I don't know how that works). Poor Ella is crying so hard, it looks like her eyes are going to bulge out! And Lincoln is still strapped in the stroller screaming and crying. I stand back and let the nurses do there thing while I try to entertain Lincoln. Once the IV is in they let me hold her and she goes right to sleep. She's been so tired from the beginning. Now Chris is out of work and I was finally able to get a hold of him and one of his buddies gave him a ride to the hospital. While Chris and Lincoln go for a walk and get some food, the ER doctor comes in and is talking to me about transferring Ella to a children's hospital about an hour away to spend the night. They still need to do blood work so a nurse comes in and tries to draw blood from the IV again and nothing. Another nurse comes in and pricks her other heel to squeeze blood out, all while I'm holding my little baby looking into her sad eyes. It broke my heart. After about 4 hours, the doctor comes in and says they found bacteria in her urine, I shout "that's a good thing!" Yes, because now they won't to a spinal tap and the can treat the problem. No because this could lead to permanent scaring of her kidneys. He sends us home for the night and tells me to return to Ella's pediatrician in the morning.  



     Another early morning driving Chris to work. 11 am I take Ella to her doctor and they want to give her an injection of the antibiotic. Her thighs aren't "meaty" enough  so they decide to divide it into two injections, one on each leg. Once that's done, we have to wait around for another 20 minutes just to make sure she doesn't have an allergic reaction. (I have Lincoln with me and he's throwing a fit while Ella's crying). We get sent home with a prescription and order to get an ultrasound of her bladder. I get a call later that night from a nurse telling me that they also found bacteria in her blood. That does not sound good! I have to take her back to the Hospital to draw more blood. It's Friday night around 7 pm so I pick Chris up, drop him and Lincoln back off at home then drive Ella straight to the hospital. The whole way I'm praying that they find a vein on the first try so that she doesn't have to suffer too much. My sweet little girl, she's always so calm and happy in my arms. I lay her down on the table and she locks into my eyes. I can tell she knows what's coming. Two nurses come in and and the call for back up just in case they can't find a vein. First try and they found a vein! I pick her up right away and she falls asleep immediately. Time to go home and get some rest. On the way home I pick up the prescription and it's the wrong one. The pharmacists insists it's right so I just take it and leave. The next morning I call the doctor about the prescription, and sure enough they gave me the wrong medication. Good thing I didn't give it to her. I go back to the pharmacy and pick up the right one. Later that night I got a call from the ER doctor and he wants me to use a different prescription, so now I'm off to pick that one up and it's a week of meds for her.

      On December 15th Lincoln and Ella both have their well baby visit. They took another urine sample and everything seems much better with her but she still needs to keep her ultrasound and VCUG appointment. Monday the 19th we head off to the Stafford Hospital early in the morning. I'm told it will be a four hour visit so I came fully prepared with lots of snacks and toys for Lincoln. First, an ultrasound of her bladder and kidneys. Then under the x-ray machine for the VCUG. The procedure consists of inserting a catheter up into her bladder and they slowly dispense a fluid into her bladder that can easily be seen by the x-ray machine. Once her bladder is full, the doctor watches to see what happens when she urinates. It was as they suspected, When she pees some of the urine goes back up (reflux) exposing her to urinary infections and she could possibly need surgery to fix that. Ella's pediatrician wants to see her again the next day to take another urine sample (via catheter) and explain things to me in person. She said it rated on a scale from 1 to 5, 5 being the worst and definitely needing surgery. Ella's case is so mild, they rated it at a 1 (phew!) and said in most cases like this it will resolve on it's own but she might have to be on medication in the mean time. So next month we will be seeing a Urologist who will look further into into her ultrasound and x-ray pictures and tell us where to go from there.




      My little Ella has been such a trooper through this whole thing. She is still full of smiles. I'm so thankful that everything is turning out to be just fine and I constantly pray that she will continue to grow strong and healthy! (and my lillte Lincoln has been so great too)!


Friday, September 23, 2011

Close Enough to Kiss


Oh no! I think I'm becoming semi "crunchy!"
 I'm not a tree hugger, or vegetarian, I don't cloth diaper, and I definitely don't lean to the left (so I guess I'm not even close to being "Crunchy Granola"). But I do BABYWEAR! (Which I learned some what falls into that category of people). For me, babywearing just makes life a little easier. I can have Ella in the sling with me while I'm chasing Lincoln around or if Lincoln is tired of being in the stroller I can carry him around with me. I love it! It's so nice having them near me and always at eye level. I'm even trying to master wearing them both together! There are so many benefits of babywearing. My sister says I look like Sacajawea, which I'll take as a compliment.
Babywearing seems like it's becoming more of a fad lately. Every time I'm out I get so many stares and people saying "Awe, how cute..." It's actually pretty awkward, but maybe there will be more babywearers because of it... So if you want to start wearing your kid around to make things more convenient, or to bond, or because you simply want to look cool, here's what you need to make your very own Ring Sling:
• a shawl (or fabric that has some give to it but not stretchy) I got one at JcPenny on sale for $10!
•two 3" aluminum rings (slingrings.com $4/pair)
• your newborn, infant, or toddler (some even wear their DOGS!)
• and follow this video I found on YouTube

Now you're ready to start babywearing. There are so many instruction videos on YouTube on how to put your child in properly.
HAPPY BABYWEARING!


Here are some of my babywearing moments...








 


Even dogs like to wear their babies....
hee hee!


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